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Hackensack Discussion / Homeless count
« on: September 04, 2009, 02:24:14 PM »
I moved away from the area but was wondering if the new shelter opened?  Has the number of homeless dropped since FAITH Foundation closed?  Is Orchard St still open?

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Christmas in Hackensack...past and present
« on: December 30, 2008, 02:07:51 PM »
Merry Christmas to you.

Unfortunately, I get the same reply from saying a cheery Hello to cashiers and store personnel.  They're sort of stunned and really don't know how to respond. 

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: You-Tube: Hackensack Fires
« on: December 30, 2008, 02:05:44 PM »
Wow!  Great footage.  What a shame.  I've been out of Hackensack for a year now, and out of the loop.  How did the 4/26/08 fire start?

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Services for the homeless...
« on: December 30, 2008, 01:58:33 PM »
FAITH Fnd attracted no more than any other agency.  Does anyone get after the church associated with the food pantry?  Or On Our Own? Or even CAP?  Robin gets the people who CAP doesn't have a program for.  Yet, CAP's programs, when there is one, throw people into a dismal spiral that is difficult to get out of.  I'm hoping one guy in particular, a professional person who lost his job, lost his home, whose wife then left him, has no kids or parents, will write about his experience with CAP.  The Record loves the sensational stories.  They have been offered to write about the success stores that Robin has (well over 150) who LEFT Hackensack, but the Record doesn't write about them. 

It is interesting that this "blow-up" happened days after a CO was filed by the church for Robin.  This the same church that offered HER the space, and claimed they knew about her clientele for years and had followed the events of this past years when she finally closed.  Something's up with this (part-time) Pastor Ippolito, who has a full-time job not associated with the church.  There were too many people, caterer's assistants, volunteers from schools, and other agencies, that saw a lot of stuff that is not being reported in the Record.

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Main St.
« on: October 27, 2008, 04:14:43 PM »
Limon is actually an exact replica of Zeytinia, that are now in Englewood, Oakland and the Palisade Center Mall.  Zetynia is a turkish chain of gourmet grocery stores.  The prepared food is all excellent.  The prices in the produce department are usually phenomenal (I bought kale at 49 cents a bunch and organic black berries at 99c for the little square container.  I haven't yet had time to research if Limon is a brand of Zeytinia, but it is the exact same store and POS program.  Nice to have it in Hackensack. 

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Services for the homeless...
« on: April 12, 2008, 06:15:02 PM »
Wattles was referring to everyone, not just a particular group - this is the guy Rhonda Byrne plagiarized with The Secret. 

The homeless are a microcosm of the entire population.  For instance, the guy in Morristown is the homeless version  of any slacker, like my current boss, who relies on others to get her work done while she collects a paycheck.  There are very kind, sweet, hard-working homeless people, violent ones, pedophiles, caretakers, elderly, many who are not addicted or alcoholic, and many who are.  The one thing I have found is that they don't hide behind facades - no suits, uniforms, etc. - you know you're dealing with a crazy person, a felon, a pedophile, and even a con artist.  The same can't be said for the same people who are "gainfully employed" and doing well.

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Services for the homeless...
« on: April 11, 2008, 10:04:22 AM »
Isn't he the New Thought author and philosopher, the same guy Rhonda Byrne plagiarized?

Anyone who has studied the history of social services, poverty and mental illness knows that the poor and otherwise afflicted have been viewed as slightly better than lepers, not only in the US but for centuries in Europe.  They cost money to care for, which is why poverty levels are often set very low, so that they don't qualify.

I would like to see how Wattles inspires a schizophrenic whose parents are poor and mentally ill themselves.  Wattles, if he is the same guy, opines that a person's situation is created by their thoughts.  Makes me think of one homeless guy I know in Hackensack who has a PhD and used to be a professor at NYU until full-blown schizophrenia manifested in his late 30s.   Every now and then he could quote any number of authors - Shakespeare, Robert Frost, etc. - but couldn't remember his own name.  Did he run out of inspiration and decide to be homeless?  No family, no ability to make his own decisions, which is required of mentally ill people as judges are fearful of committing them, he is now homeless. 

Taxpayers should go visit Orchard Street during dinner hour and see if they can inspire those who are talking to themselves, paranoid and picking fights, and delusional (and these are the ones CAP hasn't banned!).  How about the elderly women who look like anyone's grandma, who are scared to death 24/7, yet so far have found no housing and few consistent services?

The media loves to spotlight the few who appear to have some resources within.  It is a great way to sway popular opinion about the homeless and where tax dollars go.  Taxpayers should go undercover and experience the abuses, waste and corruption in any of the tax-paid social service programs, police departments and hospitals if they really want to get inspired. 

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Services for the homeless...
« on: April 09, 2008, 11:27:08 PM »
Something happened that has nothing to do with the fact that she was operating a drop-in center in a retail space, and the story will likely come out, not right away, but it will.  The city approved a block grant for FAITH only two years ago, and the situation was no different then than it is now. Those grants are very difficult to earn.

It would be great if each town could come up with a way to take care of its own, but until they do, the homeless will be deposited to Hackensack.  When laws change that "protect the rights" of the mentally ill, then perhaps those who cannot make informed decisions on their own behalf will be taken care of and not discarded, the way they are now, not only by society, but by the very agencies who receive tax dollars to do so.  When the child "welfare" agencies clean up their act, then you will see a decline in homeless populations everywhere.

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Services for the homeless...
« on: March 24, 2008, 09:23:17 AM »
The apartments at 40 Passaic were pretty inside to begin with.  Pest experts say that ripping up flooring really doesn't do the job - that polyurethaning the floors and into the seams by woodwork does - so this might be a recurring problem once furniture is unpacked and tenants move in. 

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Services for the homeless...
« on: January 10, 2008, 07:22:00 PM »
The author of the following Letter to the Editor (no relation to me) is a perfect of example of what is wrong with the mental health business when it comes to the chronically homeless.

Sunday, January 6, 2008

Regarding Columnist Mike Kelly's "Homeless apartment plan is a shortsighted idea" (Opinion, Page O-1, Dec. 30), on housing for the homeless suffering from substance abuse and mental problems:

Have you ever had to move? Many people experience the moving process as unsettling and stressful. They find themselves becoming cranky, forgetful and much more interested in that scotch and soda after a day of packing.

Homelessness is all these things writ large, and then some. As a psychotherapist in private practice in Ridgewood, I have many times watched homeless people's psychiatric symptoms and/or substance abuse "magically" remit when they find a safe place to live.

Homelessness is a classic chicken/egg phenomenon. Please try to imagine how you would start to feel and behave if you really, truly had nowhere to live.

"Housing First" works: It saves money and it saves lives. There is mounting statistical evidence regarding its efficacy in a number of states. Furthermore, historical anthropology has evidenced that the longevity of nation-states is predicated on their response to vulnerability.

Susan Donnelly

Ridgewood, Jan. 2

The writer is a licensed clinical social worker.



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Why did it close?

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Services for the homeless...
« on: April 10, 2007, 08:48:01 AM »
http://www.northjersey.com/page.php?qstr=eXJpcnk3ZjczN2Y3dnFlZUVFeXkzNTkmZmdiZWw3Zjd2cWVlRUV5eTcxMDkyNjcmeXJpcnk3ZjcxN2Y3dnFlZUVFeXky

"By 2004, at least a third of mortgages issued in nearly all of Paterson and Passaic were subprime. In much of Haledon and Prospect Park, between 22 and 33 percent of home loans were untraditional. And 16 to 22 percent of loans were subprime in stretches of Clifton, Lodi and Garfield.

The easy availability of money -- and profits from the loans' high interest rates -- led to abuses. National fraud reports for mortgages increased by 1,411 percent between 1997 and 2005, totaling almost 83,000 during the period, the federal Financial Crimes Enforcement Network found. In the first three months of 2006, cases were up by more than a third from the previous year.

About two-thirds of frauds were due to misstated documentation of a borrower's ability to afford a loan. Even the properly executed ones were not in many homeowners' best interest, as the products came with suddenly increasing interest rates. Eventually, many of these mortgages overburden homeowners.

"You might as well have handed someone a ticking time bomb," said Schloemer, of Responsible Lending.

At the end of 2006, about 13 percent of subprime loans in New Jersey were past due, according to a Mortgage Bankers Association survey. Mary Johnson of Consumer Credit Counseling Services of New Jersey, a Cedar Knolls nonprofit that sees 3,000local clients annually, says her agency is pressed to help those on the brink of foreclosure.

"We are dealing with people who are living in their cars," Johnson said. Her agency refers these clients to homeless services, but Johnson has found that the programs are too overwhelmed to provide relief. "

My husband and I had been urged by neighbors, relatives, co-workers, friends to get one of these creative mortgages about four years ago.   Our bottom line was that if we couldn't afford it, we couldn't afford it, and that there HAD to be a time down the road when any creative mortgate would catch up.  To think that the pursuit of the American Dream has led to an increase in the homeless population is quite ironic.


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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Bald Eagles on the Hackensack River
« on: April 02, 2007, 10:38:56 AM »
And Hooters...while watching one baldy from Saks, it swooped up towards Route 4 and then down past Hooters.   Quite an interesting scene.

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Bald Eagles on the Hackensack River
« on: April 01, 2007, 07:35:26 PM »
It was quite amazing when something caught my eye as I was walking on Main Street three weeks ago and that something turned out to be four bald eagles - two mature and two young.  Ten had been spotted in Foschini Park one afternoon.   

The day after the first spotting, driving on Route 4 east, one was circling over FDU in the sunshine.  Later that day, while driving over the reservoir near United Water in Harrington Park, I saw a young one sitting on the ice. 

A trip to The Shops at Riverside one Sunday to see what I could see was successful.  Right off the second level parking deck outside of Saks was a big adult sitting in a tree about 150 feet away, being pestered by gulls.

They've left the area for cooler climates and to start hatching chicks. 

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Hackensack Discussion / Re: Services for the homeless...
« on: February 11, 2007, 08:04:31 PM »
There were two other very insightful letters in the Record today as well. 


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