Funeral for beloved Hackensack merchant Jerome S. Some is colored by humor Saturday, October 12, 2013 Last updated: Saturday October 12, 2013, 4:29 PM
BY JEFF GREEN
STAFF WRITER
The Record
HACKENSACK — Family and friends celebrated Jerome S. Some's life with flourishes of humor during his funeral service Friday, recalling the beloved Main Street merchant's tough-love management style and the aura of cigar smoke that followed him everywhere.
Diane Some, carrying an American flag, being escorted into a car after the funeral for her husband, Jerome S. Some. The service Friday morning began with military honors presented by three New Jersey Honor Guard police officers and three members of the U.S. Air Force, with whom Some served during World War II. CARMINE GALASSO/STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER
Many in the standing-room-only crowd sobbed while two of the service members stood on either side of Some's flag-draped coffin and the other sounded taps. Rabbi Randi Musnitsky said the people who loved him were "truly pained by the instantaneous and unexpected loss of a vibrant, healthy, strong and seemingly invincible personality."
But the service also was marked by laughter as Some's children brought out his idiosyncrasies in their eulogies. His youngest son, Jason, 23, imitated how his father would have reacted to the Air Force tribute.
"He's probably up there saying, 'Those uniforms, they look good, but come down to the store and I'll put you in a better one,' " Jason Some said, assuming his father's gruff voice.
His daughter, Andrea, recounted how friends would visit and spend hours with her father, playing cards and "absorbing his sage words."
Lee Some, his eldest son, talked about his passion for the uniform business — "To him, work was play" — as well as his undying love of the Yankees and cigars.
"I wish I could smell that cigar smoke again," he said.
Some, 87, founder of Some's Uniforms, a World War II veteran and a steadfast member of the Hackensack business community, died Tuesday night while crossing the street from his apartment building on Prospect Avenue on his way to a meeting. Authorities say Kathleen Gehm, 63, of River Vale, was driving south when her vehicle struck and killed him.
Police issued Gehm a summons for driving while intoxicated after she failed a field sobriety test. But the Bergen County Prosecutor's Office, which took over the investigation, has issued no charges in the case as it awaits results of toxicology tests.
As Some was laid to rest Friday, Gehm's attorney blasted authorities for their handling of the case and insisted she did nothing wrong.
The lawyer, Matthew T. Priore, said Friday that police made a mistake by not giving her a breath test, which would have "immediately cleared her name." He also criticized the police for "prematurely" releasing a statement that she was intoxicated without any toxicology test results.
"I could see if there was a [breath test] and a reading, or blood-alcohol sample and a reading," Priore said. "Why they come to a conclusion she was intoxicated is beyond comprehension."
He said his client "wasn't talking on the phone, wasn't speeding, wasn't doing anything inappropriate. Once the toxicology reports come back from the lab, she'll be fully exonerated."
The lawyer said he had not seen the field sobriety test or any police reports, but Gehm was "extremely shaken up at the time."
Bergen County Prosecutor John Molinelli referred all questions about the decision to issue summonses but not give Gehm a breath test to Hackensack Police Director Michael Mordaga, who could not be reached for comment Friday.
Priore said Gehm, a nurse for 43 years, was devastated by the accident and has cooperated with investigators. He said her heart goes out to the family.
"It appears he took a couple of steps into traffic, and I assume he didn't see her and she didn't see him until it was too late," Priore said.
Police said Some did not cross near an intersection as he headed to a meeting of his apartment building's co-op board at the Bel Posto Italian restaurant. His family has called on the city to add a crosswalk and improve lighting on the street.
Aside from his high regard as a business leader, Some was known for helping the homeless and unemployed and supported a proposal to redevelop Main Street as a board member of the Main Street Alliance.
The three police officers who participated in Some's service at Gutterman and Musicant Jewish Funeral Directors were wearing uniforms that he designed. Capt. Bob Kneer of the Fair Lawn Police Department and commander of the New Jersey Honor Guard said Some fit him in his uniform in 1973.
"I'm wearing it the whole day today," Kneer said. "I'm not taking it off."
Kneer said that Some gained the respect of law enforcement by working hard and speaking with authority.
"He was such a small man but so powerful," Kneer said. "He had a command presence."
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